You've been dreaming of getting married outdoors since the first time you took in the magnificent scent of fresh-cut flowers.

Q. What can you tell me about St. Martin? My wife wants to go there for our wedding anniversary because, she claims, it has the best food in the Caribbean. What's to do there besides eat? I'm not a lie-on-the-beach person. - R.A., Boynton Beach, Fla.

Adding to the fun of a shower can be accomplished through creative planning. Depending on the bride's taste and your budget, creativity can be used in any or all facets of the event including the location, dress, presents, and invitations.